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| Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women -- Part I |
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| Written by Vin DiCarlo |
| Wednesday, 30 July 2008 21:31 |
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Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women? And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal? READ ON if you answered YES those questions. Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating. Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend. Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls. Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving. In your approach, you have to have the courage. First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date. Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior. (Let's not started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "beautiful.") Being not "extroverted" by nature can be pretty exhausting. ... I have encountered a client that has a problem of "extroversion fatigue." I used to struggle with that too that's why I knew exactly what he meant. Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED. I would have to sit down and rest! Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I was at my full time job. I would go home absolutely dead ... from TALKING TO WOMEN! That things makes any sense??? And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me. It was like a full time job and I was working overtime! When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.) But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration). I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before. If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this. About the Author: Vin DiCarlo is a expert dating trainer, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has to say about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show. Kindly provided by MoneyHunter.org You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include the link just before this text. |
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