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Written by Chris Miller   
Monday, 30 January 2012 10:11
When a girl suddenly acts cold, there may be some matters that you're not aware of. It's virtually impossible to actually know how to act so that you can make it up to the woman. A girl may take this opportunity to make the most of your weak spot and simply string you along. If you do not do anything, you will be named a jerk or worse.

When a girl suddenly acts cold, there may be some matters that you're not aware of. It's virtually impossible to actually know how to act so that you can make it up to the woman. A girl may take this opportunity to make the most of your weak spot and simply string you along. If you do not do anything, you will be named a jerk or worse.

The thought of having a perfect relationship may be what's making her act up. If you are not sharing the same ideals as far as commitment is concerned, she may feel like you're not taking her seriously. Is forcing yourself to change your mindset the right thing to do? Change is not required, particularly if you think you're really not ready. But you will have to meet halfway somehow. She may be too inflexible to understand that an ideal relationship is all in her head.

Some guys would say 'give up and find another', but this does not apply when you comprehend that you had a good thing going and you want to keep that relationship. Therefore, what can you do to make a woman fall for you again?

Discover How to Get a Girl to Like You Again - 3 Ways

1. Make Her Long for You

If you have a clingy personality, this may be the most difficult thing you will have to do. But you actually need to reset her thinking, and only she can do that on her own. The stress brought on by fighting habitually can be wearing her out. When she's ready, you'll get an earful of what she thinks is off beam with both of you.

Don't put out the idea that you are breaking up. You know better. This is a game of "wait and see". When she gets her thoughts straightened out, she will tell you what she wants out of the relationship. You just have to accept that until she's ready, you may have to make do with sulking on her part. Never lose yourself when she goes away from you for a while. Give her space and do something else with your time.

2. Go Out on a Date

The ambiance and the experience you make when you're together can cure any relationship issues. The atmosphere should be comfortable so that no fights will break out. It helps if you have a sexy idea like a few scented candles and a nice dinner. But the actual trick is making the ambiance pleasant between you and your girl.

Talk about cheerful issues and avoid bringing up your last fight. Ignore the sulking. Negative provocation may come from her but make sure you don't act in response to it. If she persists, just tell her that you're not in the mood for a fight, but for something else. If your plan is to relieve the tension, you must never give in to her aggravation. Subsequently, she will relax and enjoy herself.

Go to a romantic place. You may have to bear it for a while if she's into things that you don't actually like, but just this once. She will comprehend the implications of having the date in a spot that she prefers.

3. Apologize

Apologizing over and over yet half-heartedly is not effective. Saying sorry repeatedly makes you look desperate. You can apologize only once, but be sure that she feels your sincerity. Afterward, you do not have to apologize again. An admission of guilt that's sincere comes with a promise. Spill your heart in that one apology, and then the ball is back in her court.

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